Sunday, January 6, 2019

What Homeschooling my Children Has Taught Me

One of the benefits of homeschooling my kids is that I get to essentially learn or re-learn things right along with them.  When we first made the decision to homeschool, I had figured this would be a nice bonus, but honestly didn't think I would be seeing the benefits of it so soon.  Let me tell you about three fun examples of what I have been taught so far while teaching my kids.  I'd love to hear from other homeschooling parents if they have had similar experiences.
One of the things I knew immediately that I wanted my kids to know was how to read print.  I planned to teach them braille as well, but I also wanted them to know the shape of raised/embossed print letters, like you often find on signs.  There is just so much practical benefit to this skill; I didn't want them to miss out.  I never learned this. I was taught braille very young but had no idea about print letters. Well, here was an interesting problem.  How could I teach my kids something that I didn't know myself?  The only solution was for me to learn this right along with them.
Now, this probably sounds like a huge undertaking.  But I've realized something awesome about homeschooling and that is, I don't have to know the whole of a subject to teach it to my kids. I basically just have to be one step ahead of them in the learning process.  So I would have my husband, Luke, teach me a few letters (we have various magnet letters and tiles that have raised print on them) and once I knew those well, I would then teach the kids.  Once they were on their way to mastering, let's say, a through d, I'd have Luke teach me a few more.  This system allowed me to teach them all 26 letters while learning it along with them.  It was actually pretty exciting.
After I had used this system for teaching Lexy, she and I had a very fun outing.  We went out and found embossed print on random objects in our neighborhood and we were both able to read it together!  Although, I'll confess, she did better than me at dealing with the different fonts.  I wasn't even bothered by that; I was just proud.  And as for myself, it really felt amazing to be able to read print!
Let's take a subject that I did learn in school, US geography.  I remember having to learn the US map by touch in fifth grade; I worked really hard to be able to do that for the test.  And I'm pretty sure I promptly forgot it almost immediately afterward.  Mrs. Tallman, if you ever read this, I’m sorry. :)  Well, I had started to teach Lexy about states and capitals, but after a few months of just memorization, I could tell she was quickly growing bored.  So, just to see how it would go, we got her a US puzzle map.  She really enjoys it and knows a good half of the US map.  But of course, I had to learn it before I could show her where all those states are in relation to each other.
So, you guessed it, Luke teaches me a few states at a time and, just like with the letters, it's working.  I really am enjoying re-learning the layout of our country. It just feels good to know this simple thing again.  I had always been hesitant about homeschooling because I didn't think I had the time to raise kids while learning an entire subject that was foreign to me.  But really, once I realized that I don't have to know the whole thing before they do, it really opens up so many possibilities.
For example, as Lexy began to dive into her US map, we thought, "what about expanding that knowledge base?"  She already knew the continents, so we found a Europe map puzzle.  I’m very sad to say that I’m a typical American and knew virutally nothing about European geography. Now, thanks to teaching my daughter, that is changing. It is seriously so cool, I mean, I now know that Spain is east of Portugal or that Bulgaria is north of Greece.  We are learning and discovering together and it is just so interesting.  I love being a part of my children's education, while also learning myself.  It is another way for us to connect.
One last example is numbers.  I don't mean arithmetic but simply recognizing the shape of print numbers.  That is something I did not know either before homeschooling, having only ever known braille.  It has been fun to teach them the numbers and now we can all recognize them in elevators or on hotel signs.  The best part is that these things have been just as useful for me to learn as they have been for the kids.  I don't feel like I am teaching them useless things; we are all learning practical skills that we all need.
Now, don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of challenging homeschool days.  Even so, I am glad to be the primary educator of the family.  It is a joy to see them discover the world and even more fun to get to learn right along beside them.